This is one of the sex toys that I try to keep a secret. This is the first time I have written and one of the few times I have discussed this powerful vibrator. They call it the magic wand for a reason, it’s big, it’s powerful, and it works well, with no batteries required. Adults beware, this is not just some novelty or toy that will disappear quickly, in fact it could take on a much bigger role in the sexual relationship than you ever imagined.

Hitchai MAgic Wand Vibrator

Hitachi Magic Wand Vibrator

It’s long handle makes it easy to use, and easy on the wrists. It’s large vibrating head makes it easy to get strong vibrations all around the labia and clitoris, in fact you can just hold this bad boy in the general area of the clit and the vibrations will find their way home. It’s a plug in model, so you can count on consistent strong vibes (although there are two settings for vibrating intensities) without worry of the batteries getting weak or needing to be replaced in the middle of your sexual liaisons. With all these bonuses you may wonder why it is not THE most popular sex toy on the market, well it may be one of the best at doing what it does, it does have some drawbacks.

It’s long handle and large vibrating head make sit a powerful tool, much like a large shotgun is a powerful tool that makes it easy to hit the target, it’s large size does not lend itself well to be hidden from prying eyes. Some people like to hide their sex toys so guests or young ones can’t find them, this behemoth would take some considerable  creativity to hide. Of course it is sold as a back massager, so leaving it out for anyone to see and letting the world know that you prefer to self massage at home rather than spending the time and money to get hands on massage work, well they may just assume it’s only use is to reach those tight muscles in your shoulders.

The powerful vibrations that you’ll enjoy from this tool can be numbing after a while, this is a serious concern. Too much use of any vibrator can desensitize the clit, and make it harder for you get off, and especially harder to get off without the motorized vibrations. This can be a real problem if you later try having sex with only human stimulation, one of my good friends actually left the girl he loved very much because things got to the point where sex without the magic wand was not satisfying for her. So definitely check in with yourself, or keep a little sex diary, if it takes you 10 minutes to get the big O when you first start using this thing, and a month later you find you’ve been using it 6 times a day, everyday, and it now takes you 40 minutes to get off, and sex with humans becomes simply foreplay for you main love of the magic wand, then perhaps it’s time to slow down and reevaluate your masturbatory goals.

This bad boy works well, it’s easy to use, and for some it’s more addictive and relationship destructive than crack. I think it has it’s uses, but they should be limited. Try at your own risk! It may be the best and easiest orgasms you’ve ever had, but can you keep that to a manageable amount? With no batteries to run out, it may be hours before you put it down, and that may be too much!

With the national theater release of Zack and Miri make a porno, the famous porn star Belladonna speaks out about the reality of making your own sex movies. I found this interview at Xbiz which is a site for people in the adult video and sex toy businesses. I can’t tell if it’s an excerpt from an interview, but the few points that she makes in the article are certainly important.

I think most people know that Hollywood can make anything look easy is the movies, whether it’s flying through the air while shooting or driving a car at 200 miles per hour, the reality is that things are much harder in the real world. In the porn world, things are sometimes much softer than you want them to be, even with viagra and a plethora of other herbs and pills on the market that make it easier to get a hard on, when the camera crew has equipment and lights shining up your ass, sometimes it’s hard to keep an erection, even if you really want to fuck the people who are waiting for it.

Other points she makes about having to have sex with people that you really don’t want to… well I guess some people do that in the porno business, but you certainly don’t have to. I myself, well, actually, I have, but that’s another story. Belladonna is right about the pressure involved overall.

I am glad she discusses the need to get everyone naked ad inspect their bodies before a sex video shoot, mentioning that she has had actresses arrive with staph infections and I know that she herself has had to lay out of work for periods of time due to issues with her own skin. Sometimes actors are not aware of their bodies, and sometimes perhaps they are aware of a bad rash or other issue, but need to work to pay the bills. I know I’ve seen some good porn that could of been a lot better if one of the actors did not have a huge biol that kept distracting me – I think it was a scene from cum shitters with Manuel Ferrara – he was the producer and he had the annoying, distracting boil!

Certainly taking a good look at your talent before shooting, and being mentally prepared for not shooting that day (and sending other people home, sometimes having to pay others) is something to be aware of, and having a backup plan or backup actors in case you need to make adjustments is a good idea. Being aware of skin issues before the shoot could also give you and the camera crew a chance to consider shooting from angles that do not catch the area on film, and perhaps still turn out a good fuck flick, but advance knowledge is power, it is much easier to change the shoot than to try to cut out a lot of otherwise good film in post.

I’m glad to see Belladonna is still active and vocal in many areas of the adult industry, many people know her films and know her name. Certainly some of the incredible anal sex scenes she has done, including taking rather large sex toys in her ass and sometimes multiple toys in multiple holes, along with great gangbang flicks, all while smiling, have won her many fans! I know a lot of women that like Belladonna as a porno actress, and she does a lot of hard core sex work on camera that is not the “wholesome” vanilla type work that Jenna Jameson has used to win over female viewers.

I love to make sex movies, and I enjoy watching fuck flicks that others have made. Maybe we’ll see more amateur exhibitionists with the new Zack and Miri make a porno movie in the theaters, perhaps when it comes out on DVD we’ll see many more people decide that a quick way to make a few extra bucks in this tough economy is to film some fucking! Let’s hope they take advice from others and get good angles and good lighting. If you get good stuff on film (perhaps the hardest part), then you’ll need help marketing it, and thats where professionals like us come in!

Contact us through the Global Adult Media web site if you’d like tips on making money from your home made porn!

I found a newer sex toy today that I am excited to try out, it’s called the body blossom and it’s made by Adam & Eve. This is very similar to a sex toy invention that I have had on the drawing board for a while now, so I have to ask, has anyone else tried it yet?

Body Blossom Sex Toy

Body Blossom Sex Toy

I’m not sure what everyone else thinks when they first see this new sex toy, but my first though is “Let’s try it together!”. I think this would be a fun sex toy to use while having intercourse. I imagine it would feel good for both partners to insert it and fuck at the same time. It’s function seems similar to a rabbit style vibrator in that it provides internal stimulation along with clitoral vibration, without the external battery pack to get in the way.

I imagine that it would also make a fine sex toy for solo use because it is shaped to rub the g-spot on the inside and vibrate the clit on the outside. Now I have seen a few similar shaped adult toys on the market, and one of the first had some complaints about the size, it seems that one size does not fit all (imagine that). Some girls need a longer distance between the shaft and vibrator portion. I’d like to see this toy come in two different sizes, as I imagine it would be hard to make it very adjustable.

Certainly some girls would not be able to handle a cock inside them while using this at the same time, but there are plenty of girls that could use more on the inside while having sex. I’m going to get one when try it out with a partner to see how it feels and how the size / space works. If anyone else has tried it out let me know what you think in the comments!

Who would of thought that having some sex toys in a movie with George Clooney would boost sex toy sales? Well I certainly thought so! I saw the huge increase in awareness and sales of the infamous rabbit vibrator (and the many variants of rabbit styled vibrators) when they were featured in sex and the city. George Clooney is not just a sex symbol these days, but also respected by many, even if his character in a recent movie was that of a sex addict, George having sex toys makes it easier for the rest of us to possess them.

It’s a combination of him as a respected person, a sex symbol, and added curiosity of advanced sex techniques that I believe have led to the increase in sex toy sales because of the portrayal in the movie. Certainly the way that the sex toys were portrayed in the movie have a lot to do with it as well. I doubt the small segment of Austin Powers being caught with a penis pump did much more than raise the awareness (and ignorance) about such devices. The movie with Mike Myers only added to the stigma of penis pumps as male sexual enhancers as being something to be embarrassed about, not something that celebrities would want to be caught with.

I am glad the Clooney movie showed sex toys as a way to take sex to the next level, something that advanced sexual beings would employ, and even carry around with them. Certainly movies have made it more acceptable to carry around condoms, now if they would only make it seem less an issue to actually buy condoms! I was so disappointed to the the last Chris Rock movie show an embarrassing scene with him trying to acquire condoms at the corner store.

In real life I have never been chastised for buying condoms, or sex toys, now if we can continue to show these purchases, possession, and use in a positive manner in movies and other pop culture media, perhaps America will move into an age of having more satisfied and safe sexual lives. The latest film burn after reading has certainly helped move us in that direction, and for that I am thankful.