Seems like the whole “Make sex toy stores women friendly boutiques” thing is taking over in Canada as well. They talk about how they are making them more women friendly by adding lots of fluff to the front and putting the hardcore stuff in the back. It’s a grand concept, it makes sense, it works. I am glad to see more and more women buying sex toys and other products to enhance the intimate pleasures that life has to offer.

I am not a big fan about how articles like this seem to put down the porno shops of years past though. In the article they say something like the porn store is no longer for “Dirty old men” – well I take issue with that, sure there are dirty old men that frequent porn stores, and there are also hot young guys who shop there as well. There are plenty of hot young girls too. The main difference that these changes in lighting up the stores, changing some of the packaging and stuff does, is make it more friendly for the “Dirty old women”.

None the less, I am glad to see that the older broads are getting places that make them more comfortable about shopping for anal beads and dildos. Here is a link to the news story.

There is some good in the article, some information from an expert on sex and morality:

Still, we’re definitely not as uptight as we used to be, according to one expert on sex and morality. Women especially are at the forefront of our changing social values around the importance of a healthy, open sex life.

“Once you take up the premise that enjoying sex can be a part of a good relationship, you’re not that far from buying sex toys,” said Patricia Milano, a philosophy professor at the University of Waterloo. “There’s been a very gradual shift in thinking about these things as nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about.”

There once was a time, Milano points out, when women’s sexual aids like vibrators were considered a strictly medical area. Today, most consumers would probably prefer to get that kind of help from a sex shop than from their doctor.

I wonder how you become an expert on sex and morality – is there a special certification for that? I’d like to take the exams! Now that’s got to be a fun list of classes for that major. I wonder how the teachers handle the subject material? She says women are the ones changing the world about seuxality being more open, um, I am pretty sure that the rest of the world has been pretty open about sex for along time, it’s not that women are are changing the world, they are changing themselves. Although I guess you can world it any way you want, since women are a huge part of the world.

The new Rammstien album is available with a six sex toys boxed set edition.

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rammstein-sex-toy-box-set-sm

It’s a great way to stir up some controversy and get some added news exposure, but the sex toys included from what I can tell are simply a half dozen cheap jelly dildos. Sure it looks kind of cool, and makes me wonder why other musicians have not had the balls to release albums with sex toy box sets. I imagine if Janet Jackson or Madonna had a box set with a pocket pussy molded from their snatch, they could easily get $200 for the album, and it could include a a strap on autographed in a another version.

I first learned some details about the new Rammstein album via a post at ad rants, they talked about how they were being very shock-promoted having videos showing butchers butchering meat along with sexual videos and music that pushed limits of Sado Masochism and such. I viewed the sample videos and was not impressed, actually I was a bit turned off, as I have no desire to watch a butcher hacking up meat, so I clicked off and wrote it off as some Marilyn Manson type of shock-hype. I have enjoyed some of Rammstiens music in the past, I am particularly fond of their songs “du Haust” and Stripped.

It’s been a chore to find any uncensored videos from the new album, at first I was only able to find 20 second samples on youtube, which were obviously edited. My girlfriend was able to find this video for the song “pussy” on youtube when she was logged into her age verified youtube account. The song seems pretty good, but the video itself appears censored. It may be the only and perhaps the only song from the new album that I will enjoy. I expect to hear this new song in every strip in the near future.

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rammstein-sex-toy-box-set

Will the album sell well? So far I am only impressed with one song, and perhaps that’s be worth spending a dollar on to show my support for a band I dig and for artists who are on a major label to make really dirty music. The rest of the song and video samples have left me unimpressed. I do like the marketing ploy of offering a sex toy box set however. It would be a cool collectors item, especially since it comes with a flight case to hold everything out of view of the ‘rents when they visit, and it’d make a cool conversation piece in any bachelor pad or swingers party.

I first read about the sex toy box set at anti-music, which says that the album has been banned or age restricted in several countries already.

A recent article published by NBC and the college’s Diamond back newspaper talks about how an after hours sex toy seminar was as educational as it was surprising. An hour and a half lecture was presented by the owners of a local sex

Huge dildo - 16inches

Huge dildo - 16inches

toy store, and she mixed talk about sexual pleasure along with safer sex alternatives. Certainly the visuals offered using real adult novelties were more attention getting than the standard drawings and statistics about std you normally find in health classes.

I’d like to attend one of these educational events myself, more to see what less perverted people find interesting, or seem to learn about. It’s hard for me to remember sometimes that there are many people out there that just don’t know about certain sexual pleasuring devices or methods. A quote from one of the students:

“I was more like, ‘Hmmm, I wonder how that works,’ or ‘Oh my God, that thing is huge!’ And sometimes like, ‘That goes where?!’”

That reminds me that we need to continually educate young adults about sex. Huge dildos are bought and used much more that most people think. On top of that, I know several women that prefer much smaller things to be inserted inside them, much smaller than you would imagine. There are also some great new sex toys made specifically for men, and men’s prostate pleasures, and most people wouldn’t know about them unless they browsed a porno store or had a seminar like the ones being offered at many colleges these days.

Philips, the same big mainstream company that helped create the CD player, and many other mainstream household products for consumers (including my current TV) – is now producing sex toys for men, women and couples. The vibrators look kind of space age and nothing like the cock shaped dildos I’m use to seeing in the porn shops.

I like the fact that philips did research to find out if couples would be more willing to use sex toys if there were some made for and marketed for couples, as opposed to the majority of sex toys that are available today that are marketed more for individual use.  Philips press release states that 35% of the couples they questions agreed that they would be more apt to buy and use sexual enhancers made for couples. I personally believe that number would be higher if all respondents would be 100% truthful to researchers about sex and sexual preferences.

Philips non-pentrating vibrators for couples

Philips non-pentrating vibrators for couples

I enjoyed seeing philip’s numbers for how large the intimate health segment is and should continue to grow in the future, yet I wonder if they will really capture much of that market. Certainly name brand recognition will help sell their new vibrators, to consumers and to stores that would most likely not take on a new sales contract with a sex only company like Tantus. The shape and overall appearance of the new line of vibes from philips will certainly appeal to some of the shy first time sex toy shoppers, and certainly buying a set of those vibrators would not raise eyebrows of passer-bys like having a huge anatomically correct dildo in your shopping basket would. However I think that consumers will ultimately choose other “marital aids” for couples over the philips for the most part.

The price point of the new vibes is reasonable, but at $100 – $200 for some non-penetrating sex toys, I believe a majority of sex toy consumers will shop around, and probably choose less expensive items, and devices that stimulate the inside as well as the outside. Today you can get high quality vibrators that also give the penetration that many women enjoy, for less. Rabbit style vibrators are popular because they give multiple pleasures at the same time, and you can get vibrating cockrings that increase pleasure for couples for under $20.

Certainly philips, and the stores that carry their new vibrators will get some sales. some of these sales will come just because there is a lack of selection at these stores, and an impulse buy of a sexual device is common at mainstream stores including walgreens and wal mart. However, with sex toy shopping so easy on the internet, the communication between women about the sex toys they enjoy and reasons for enjoying them both online, and at sex toy parties, I believe we’ll still see women and couples choosing other devices to increase their sexual pleasure and health.

Trying to jump on the bandwagon of selling sex toys that look more like art rather than a huge veined cock is a good idea. Companies like Lelo and fun factory have already been producing adult products in this genre. The research may show people are willing to purchase intimate products marketed to couples, certainly KY with their his and hers lube have been profiting from that, but when it comes to vibrators and dildos, people are going to choose the right size and functions they desire, and the philips line does not offer the kind of variety to suit all the varied tastes of sexually active people in the world.

I’ve heard the stories about swingfest in Miami Florida, the annual swingers convention that brings people from all over the world who are into “the lifestyle”.

TLC Sex Swing

TLC Sex Swing

It sounds like fun, but reading this press release on yahoo finance made me realize that it may be a great place to go sex toys shopping. The press release says that they have 45,000 square feet of space dedicated to vendors who will be selling all kinds of lingerie, adult toys, and more. It’s my kind of party!

I’m betting there will be sex swings on display, and who knows what else. I’m kind of doubting that they would allow photos to be taken inside the exhibit hall, so perhaps next year I will get a peek into the swingers shopping world that comes to Miami. In the meantime, I am glad that we offer pretty much the same selection of novelties and sex hardware that you could find there, along with a much larger variety of sex movies than they could possibly fit in the hotel.